Calling or Addressing someone in Marathi

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Suppose you want an help and you want to get attention of a person in front of you. In English you may say "Hello!", "Hey", "Friend" etc. Or in general while talking you may say ,"Hey friend, do you know ? "

These words "Hello!", "Hey" etc. in what I mean by the title "Calling or Addressing" someone.

The way you call someone who is of your age or you are friendly with will differ from calling an elder.
In Marathi "เค…เคฐे"/"เค…เค—ं" (are/agaM) is used for casual or friendly address.  "เค…เคนो" (aho) is used for calling with respect.
"เค…เคฐे"(are) is for calling boy. "เค…เค—ं" (agaM) is for calling girl.

Lets see detailed examples :-

A young boy or elder gentleman may call another young/small boy as
Hey friend  :- เค…เคฐे เคฎिเคค्เคฐा ( are mitrA )

But do NOT call a girl "เค…เค—ं เคฎैเคค्เคฐिเคฃी" (agaM maitriNI ) which be literally translated as "Hey Girlfriend" !! So be aware. Difference in Indian and Western culture matters here.
So you may call a girl formally
Hey Sister :- เค…เคนो เคคाเคˆ (aho tAI )

But a boy/girl may call another elder girl whome they know as
Hey Sister :- เค…เค—ं เคคाเคˆ (agaM tAI )

See the difference. Calling someone with "เค…เคนो" indicates respect. Where "เค…เคฐे" or "เค…เค—ं" will be used casually.

A young boy may call another young boy of his age as
Hey brother :- เค…เคฐे เคฆाเคฆा (are dAdA )

An elder person (Gent./Lady) may call a young or small child
Hey lad/boy :- เค…เคฐे เคฎुเคฒा / เคฌाเคณा ( are mulA / bALA  )

When calling an unknown elder gentleman, we generally say
Uncle !! :- เค…เคนो เค•ाเค•ा ( aho kAkA )

When calling an unknown elder lady, we generally say
Aunty !! :- เค…เคนो เค•ाเค•ू / เค…เคนो เคฎाเคตเคถी ( aho kAkU / aho mAvashI  )

Sometimes ladies do not like getting called as เค•ाเค•ू/เคฎाเคตเคถी  as it make them feel aged. So nowadays people prefer to call unknown girl or lady as "Madam" as in English.
Hello Madam :- เค…เคนो Madam (aho Madam )

Similarly supporting staff in an organization calls male employees as "Sir" like in English
Hello Sir :- เค…เคนो Sir !! (aho Sir )

****** Using "เค…เคฐे"/"เค…เค—ं"/"เค…เคนो" along with other words **************


From the words  "เค…เคฐे"/"เค…เค—ं"/"เค…เคนो" (are/agaM/ aho) the ending "เคฐे"/"เค—ं"/"เคนो" (re/gaM/ ho) are added with other words to give them special effects. 

E.g. adding it to เค•ाเคฏ(kAy) will be เค•ाเคฏเคฐे/เค•ाเคฏเค—ं/เค•ाเคฏเคนो (kAyare /kAyagaM /kAyaho)

Many times people start conversation with a familiar person using these words. 
e.g. Asking to a boy. “Hey ! How are you” -> เค•ाเคฏเคฐे ? เค•เคธा เค†เคนेเคธ ? ( kAyare ? kasA Ahes ? )
Asking to a girl. “Hey ! How are you” -> เค•ाเคฏเค—ं ? เค•เคถी เค†เคนेเคธ ? (kAyagaM ? kashI Ahes ?) 
Asking to a gentleman. “Hello ! How are you” -> เค•ाเคฏเคนो ? เค•เคธे เค†เคนाเคค ? (kAyaho ? kase AhAt ?)

Instead of just saying “เค•เคธा เค†เคนेเคธ ?“ saying “เค•ाเคฏเคฐे ? เค•เคธा เค†เคนेเคธ ?shows that you have very close relation/contact with that person.

Similarly in questions ending with เค•ा(kA) these can be seen.
Asking to a boy “Will you be coming” -> เคคू เคฏेเคฃाเคฐेเคธ เค•ा ? (tU yeNAres kA ?) 
it can also be said as เคคू เคฏेเคฃाเคฐेเคธ เค•ाเคฐे ? (tU yeNAres kAre ?)
To a girl it can be เคคू เคฏेเคฃाเคฐेเคธ เค•ाเค—ं ? (tU yeNAres kAgaM ? )
It means same as original questions. 

So do not confuse if someone adds "เคฐे"/"เค—ं"/"เคนो" (re/gaM/ ho) To WH-question words like  เค•ाเคฏ, เค•เคงी, เค•ेเคต्เคนा, เค•ुเค े, เค•เคธा (kAy, kadhI, kevhA, kuThe, kasA) and make them :-
เค•ाเคฏเคนो, เค•เคงीเคนो, เค•ेเคต्เคนाเคนो, เค•ुเค ेเคนो, เค•เคธाเคนो (kAyaho, kadhIho, kevhAho, kuTheho, kasAho )
เค•ाเคฏเคฐे, เค•เคงीเคฐे, เค•ेเคต्เคนाเคฐे, เค•ुเค ेเคฐे, เค•เคธाเคฐे (kAyare, kadhIre, kevhAre, kuThere, kasAre)
เค•ाเคฏเค—ं, เค•เคงीเค—ं, เค•ेเคต्เคนाเค—ं, เค•ुเค ेเค—ं, เค•เคธाเค—ं (kAyagaM, kadhIgaM, kevhAgaM, kuThegaM, kasAgaM )
They are same as original words.

Another example.
You tell your friend "Boss has come" -> เคธाเคนेเคฌ เค†เคฒे (sAheb Ale).
Suppose you are doing time-pass in office and you see your boss coming then  you will alert your friend "Hey, Boss has come". In Marathi you will say "เคธाเคนेเคฌ เค†เคฒेเคฐे" (sAheb Alere )
Adding "เคฐे" (re) to verb "เค†เคฒे" (Ale) gave this special effect of alerting/fetching attention :) 



Similarly it can be appended to verb in imperative statement
(To boy) Come   ->    เคฏे (ye) -> เคฏेเคฐे (yere)
(To Girl) Come  ->   เคฏे (ye) -> เคฏेเค—ं (yegaM)
(To elder man)Come ->  เคฏा (yA) -> เคฏाเคนो (yAho)
Depending on your tone it will sound urging/commanding/pleading.


Thus adding these suffixes do not change meaning but they just enunciate the fact or feeling. 

Only  remember that :- 
For a boy with casual address you can append "เคฐे" (re)
For a girl with casual address you can append  "เค—ं" (gaM)
For unknown person or with respect you can append "เคนो" (ho)

As you listen/read more Marathi you will understand these subtle differences clearly. 


************* suffixing เคจा(nA)/เคจं(naM) and เคนं (haM) ***************
Similar to above adding เคจा(nA)/เคจं(naM) to verb in imperative statement indicates that your are pleading the person to take that action who is actially refusing to do it
Person A:- Kaushik Please sing for me -> เค•ौเคถिเค• เคเค• เค—ाเคฃं เค—ा ( kaushik ek gANM gA )
Kaushik :- No no. -> เคจाเคนी เคจाเคนी ( nAhI nAhI )
Person A:- Why no. Please sing. -> เค•ा เคจเค•ो เค—ाเคจा/เค—ाเคจं ( kA nako gAnA/gAnaM )

Adding เคนं (haM) which will sound like "Hmm" in English also indicates you are pleading positively to that person. If you are inviting that person to some function or event many times it is used.

Come to my marriage. Do Come :- เคฎाเค्เคฏा เคฒเค—्เคจाเคฒा เคฏे. เคฏेเคนं ( mAjhyA lagnAlA ye. yehaM )
Talk to him. Do talk :- เคค्เคฏाเคš्เคฏाเคถी เคฌोเคฒा. เคฌोเคฒाเคนं ( tyAchyAshI bolA. bolAhaM  )

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Comments

  1. Good one...I request you to post conversations with individuals especially how to talk to an auto riskhaw fellow, how to talk to a lady in the vegetable market, how to talk to a barber in the saloon shop, how to talk to a traffic inspector, how to order a dish in a restaurant, how to talk to a bus conductor in a bus, how to ask for a mailing address, how to talk to a cop - I think these are few scenarios which I can think of...You can add many more such scenarios which will be helpful to people who want to learn Marathi...

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    1. Hi John, I have already added few of such conversations and will add few more.
      e.g. http://kaushiklele-learnmarathi.blogspot.in/2012/07/simple-marathi-conversation.html

      So expand the "Blog Archive" to get exisitng posts.

      But!! I would encourage you to start framing sentences yourself. And if you face problem in grammar do ask. You can use online dictionary for words.

      This way you will become independent soon.

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  3. what's the equivalent of the suffix -ji as in "Gandhiji" in marathi?

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    1. No suffix is used in Marathi. Sometimes เคฐाเคต is suffixed. But now due to influence of Hindi, ppl tend to use ji in Marathi as well.
      So no harm in using ji.

      Are you learning marathi using my blog ?

      Thanks,
      Kaushik

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  4. What are the alternatives for madam in Marathi while writing a letter?

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    1. เคถ्เคฐीเคฎเคคी. เค…เคฌเค•,
      เคฎเคนोเคฆเคฏा ...

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